Comments on: All Wrong http://androgynous.wordpress.com/2007/03/31/all-wrong/ With Shadows on my Wall Sat, 28 Feb 2009 18:04:52 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: rachel http://androgynous.wordpress.com/2007/03/31/all-wrong/#comment-43 rachel Sun, 08 Apr 2007 04:32:54 +0000 http://androgynous.wordpress.com/2007/03/31/all-wrong/#comment-43 avril - you certainly do think of me in a very, very odd manner. O.o cherie - mm. you shouldn't feel such responsiblity towards me, or you'd end up feeling horrible at least 3 days in a week. heh. i think it's somewhat hypocritical when people say things like "no, it's okay. you don't look THAT bad." when all they're doing is using a different scale to judge your beauty just because you're a friend. shouldn't we all judge everyone with a same criteria? you know, i've actually said that i think i look fine before. fine meaning, "just there". like, i don't look as odd as i usually look kind of thing. lol. this is interesting. once you start going online less, you end up getting more sleep. i've been having at least 8 hours of sleep for the past few days because i haven't bothered to go online unless it was necessary. :) kristy - hahaha. thanks for the advice. the perfectionist thing... i think that one's kind of in-born. harder to change i suppose. what's the point of doing something unless you do a good job of it, right? eugene - antsy ant ant. avril – you certainly do think of me in a very, very odd manner. O.o

cherie – mm. you shouldn’t feel such responsiblity towards me, or you’d end up feeling horrible at least 3 days in a week. heh. i think it’s somewhat hypocritical when people say things like “no, it’s okay. you don’t look THAT bad.” when all they’re doing is using a different scale to judge your beauty just because you’re a friend. shouldn’t we all judge everyone with a same criteria?

you know, i’ve actually said that i think i look fine before. fine meaning, “just there”. like, i don’t look as odd as i usually look kind of thing. lol.

this is interesting. once you start going online less, you end up getting more sleep. i’ve been having at least 8 hours of sleep for the past few days because i haven’t bothered to go online unless it was necessary. :)

kristy – hahaha. thanks for the advice. the perfectionist thing… i think that one’s kind of in-born. harder to change i suppose. what’s the point of doing something unless you do a good job of it, right?

eugene – antsy ant ant.

]]> By: eugene http://androgynous.wordpress.com/2007/03/31/all-wrong/#comment-40 eugene Sun, 01 Apr 2007 05:21:18 +0000 http://androgynous.wordpress.com/2007/03/31/all-wrong/#comment-40 ants ants ants. ants ants ants.

]]> By: kristy http://androgynous.wordpress.com/2007/03/31/all-wrong/#comment-39 kristy Sun, 01 Apr 2007 02:50:53 +0000 http://androgynous.wordpress.com/2007/03/31/all-wrong/#comment-39 if only people in the syf cast were ALL just HALF as enthusiastic about it as diana. or at least, if they DO dislike it that much, treat it as an obligation that they cant afford to turn away from and come for rehearsals.... hahaha. dont be a perfectionist my dear girl (easier said than done), it'd only make you feel worse about yourself cos really, no one is perfect. you get blessed with something, something else gets taken away from you. thats the game of life. uh huh. if only people in the syf cast were ALL just HALF as enthusiastic about it as diana. or at least, if they DO dislike it that much, treat it as an obligation that they cant afford to turn away from and come for rehearsals….

hahaha.

dont be a perfectionist my dear girl (easier said than done), it’d only make you feel worse about yourself cos really, no one is perfect. you get blessed with something, something else gets taken away from you. thats the game of life. uh huh.

]]> By: cherie http://androgynous.wordpress.com/2007/03/31/all-wrong/#comment-37 cherie Sat, 31 Mar 2007 14:52:26 +0000 http://androgynous.wordpress.com/2007/03/31/all-wrong/#comment-37 I want you to feel good about yourself, and accept everything, but I know it's hard. God knows I have my own insecurities that I can't kick. To you this might seem like a lucridous thing for me to say, because it might seem like it'll never happen, but I really do want you to... "embrace your inner freak", as Zach from Heroes once said (I watched Heroes today, don't give me that look), and I feel horrid when I fail to make you happier. It's a strange sense of responsibility, friend-wise. I know you're not fishing for compliments or comfort here. I feel your frustration and contempt for yourself. And I would like to say that I honestly hope that one day, you'd be able to say, "I think I look fine," and mean that. Okay, I know I sound crazy. I guess part of it's up to you as well. I mean, I could always force-feed you apples but you might always like oranges, that kind of thing. Oh my goodness maybe we should go see shrinks! I want an A for Chinese too. It just seems a teensy eensy bit impossible, that's all. As is getting A in everything else. Oh, yes. When I say, "I should get some sleep" nowdays (especially for the next three weeks), it really means "I can't get any sleep". I could, actually. That's if I completely ignore my studies, which, try as I might, will not happen. :( I want you to feel good about yourself, and accept everything, but I know it’s hard. God knows I have my own insecurities that I can’t kick. To you this might seem like a lucridous thing for me to say, because it might seem like it’ll never happen, but I really do want you to… “embrace your inner freak”, as Zach from Heroes once said (I watched Heroes today, don’t give me that look), and I feel horrid when I fail to make you happier. It’s a strange sense of responsibility, friend-wise.

I know you’re not fishing for compliments or comfort here. I feel your frustration and contempt for yourself. And I would like to say that I honestly hope that one day, you’d be able to say, “I think I look fine,” and mean that. Okay, I know I sound crazy. I guess part of it’s up to you as well. I mean, I could always force-feed you apples but you might always like oranges, that kind of thing.

Oh my goodness maybe we should go see shrinks!

I want an A for Chinese too. It just seems a teensy eensy bit impossible, that’s all. As is getting A in everything else.

Oh, yes. When I say, “I should get some sleep” nowdays (especially for the next three weeks), it really means “I can’t get any sleep”. I could, actually. That’s if I completely ignore my studies, which, try as I might, will not happen. :(

]]> By: avril http://androgynous.wordpress.com/2007/03/31/all-wrong/#comment-36 avril Sat, 31 Mar 2007 12:16:42 +0000 http://androgynous.wordpress.com/2007/03/31/all-wrong/#comment-36 Hello you little chicken wing! Hello you little chicken wing!

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